Before you ask, no we're not into polygamy!
The last few years there has been a reality tv show called Sister Wives which follows the family life of a polygamist family with 4 wives.
It's a fairly popular show, and I (rae) find it kinda interesting to watch the dynamic between all the family members. Cliff thinks it's stupid show, but he will sometimes watch it with me and it leads to some very interesting conversations.
Now, neither of us believes that plural marriage is biblical, but it is still that family's choice to live the lifestyle they choose. But we do feel that is is wrong. Mostly we feel sorry for the kids that live that lifestyle and then choose it for themselves, because then it goes in a cycle and will never change.
It sounds crazy, but I think watching this show, and seeing all the different problems and situations that arise in these 4 marriages has helped our relationship. We can see the arguments or differences between the husband and each wife and talk about it. We can discuss what we would do in that situation, or how what they did didn't seem fair or right, or how that attitude really changed that situation, and on it goes.
A lot of the problems they have don't apply to us, because we don't have kids and aren't in a plural marriage, but a lot of their problems are just marital stuff that happens to everyone. While the rest of it is a little funky, some of the things they do to help or strengthen their marriage(s) is good advice or ideas, and that has certainly helped us as well.
From what we've seen on camera, it seems that a big issue that they either don't see or won't fix is the blame game. The dad blames almost everything on the wives, the kids, or the community or situation they're in. Seeing that attitude and how it affects the wives has been really good for us. Both of us struggle with blaming the other person, and I struggle more than Cliff. So it's really good for us to see what kind of damage it does, and how it hurts the relationship(s).
There have been a lot of times while we've been watching together that something will happen and we'll look at each other and ask things like 'do I do that?' or 'do I sound like that?' or 'do you feel that way?'
A lot of the time this will lead to conversations that are hard, but we always try to be very honest with each other. We don't ever want to hurt the other person, but we try to talk about problems we're having in a safe, non-threatening way. We know we're not perfect, and that we're going to do things that hurt and upset each other, but it's still hard to listen to compliants without getting upset.
It's something that we try very hard to do, because we value our relationship so much, we don't want to have problems in 10 years because one of us has been doing something harmful or hurtful that whole time and didn't know it. (I'm sure we'l have problems in 10 years, but hopefully they will be newer problems that haven't festered for so long)
It sounds really weird to say, but I think watching the Sister Wives tv show has had a good influence on our relationship.
(Wow that sounds so weird!!!)
1 Chronicles 16:23-24 "Sing to the Lord, all the earth; proclaim his salvation day after day. Declare his glory among the nations, his marvelous deeds among all peoples."
Thursday, August 29, 2013
Wednesday, August 28, 2013
The Potter NoG9
Tonight
let us look at a name for God that shows how he molds us and tests us. We are
looking at God as our potter. Now what does this mean? Let us turn to Isaiah
were this name is used first.
Isaiah 64:7-8 And there
is none that calleth upon thy name, that stirreth up himself to take
hold of thee: for thou hast hid thy face from us, and hast consumed us, because
of our iniquities. But now, O LORD, thou
art our father; we are the clay, and thou our potter;
and we all are the work of thy hand.
This
passage preceding verse 8 is talking about how Israel had been forsaking God
and turning away but now they are coming back to God; because God is the
potter. Let us think about this, what is the imagery showing here? Have you
ever seen a piece of pottery, like a pot, being made? The way it works is that
a person sits down at a pottery wheel, and places the lump of clay on it. Then
they start to spin the wheel and as the wheel spins they shape the clay with
their hands. So they start by making a depression in the clay and slowly
working that into a larger opening and then as that grows they begin to smooth
at the walls of the pot and shape the clay into the proper shape.
When I
first read this passage here I was thinking, so what does this have to do with
me? Let us think about this. When we first came to know Jesus we were like that
unformed lump of clay. We just sat there with no purpose in life. But once we
came to know Jesus, he is able to take us down from the shelf and place us on
the wheel so that he can form us and direct us.
Just
like when the pottery wheel first starts spinning and clay does not have a
shape or a purpose, so were we when we first came to believe in Jesus. Think
back to that time when you were new in the faith, even if you were saved did
you know what it meant to be a child of God? Of course not, we had to be
taught.
Being
saved is like the first impression on the unformed clay on the potter’s wheel.
Then after we are saved we begin reading our Bibles, going to church services,
and seeking Godly counsel, all of these things are helping to shape us into the
vessel that God wants us to be.
Going
back to the imagery, the lump of clay having just the initial indentation is
now spinning on the wheel, the hands of the potter reach down and begin to form
the vessel from the inside out. Each time the wheel spins the pot is closer to
being finished.
So over
time as we continue on our journey with God, he continuously forms us for his
purpose. We read our Bibles and learn more about him so that we can be formed
by him. That is so that we are more like him. Just like how a potter doesn’t
make something useless, God has a purpose for all of the vessels that he makes.
That is, we have a purpose in Gods kingdom.
The big
way this illustration fails is that pots and vessels formed by the hands of man
cannot be made perfect. There will always be a weak spot or a mistake. But our
potter, that is God, does not make pots that are imperfect. He is shaping us
according to his will.
Let us
turn to Romans and see what was revealed through Paul about this name of God
Romans 9:17-23 For the scripture
saith unto Pharaoh, Even for this same purpose have I raised thee up, that I
might shew my power in thee, and that my name might be declared throughout all
the earth. Therefore hath he mercy on
whom he will have mercy, and
whom he will he hardeneth. Thou wilt say
then unto me, Why doth he yet find fault? For who hath resisted his will? Nay but, O man, who art thou that repliest
against God? Shall the thing formed say to him that formed it, Why hast thou made me thus? Hath not the potter power over the clay, of
the same lump to make one vessel unto honour, and another unto dishonour? Rom
9:22 What if God, willing to shew his wrath, and to make his power known, endured with much
longsuffering the vessels of wrath fitted to destruction: And that he might make known the riches of
his glory on the vessels of mercy, which he had afore prepared unto glory
Let us take a look at each verse on an individual
basis so we get a better understanding about what is being said. Verse 17 For the scripture saith unto Pharaoh, Even for this
same purpose have I raised thee up, that I might shew my power in thee, and
that my name might be declared throughout all the earth.
This verse is saying that God sometimes uses other
people even nonbelievers to accomplish his will in our lives and so that people
can see who he is. Then the people around us can influence us and help to shape
us into the vessel that God wants us to become. In other words God sometimes
forms us using outside influences, so we must be careful that the outside
influences we are into are good for us.
Verse 18 and 19 Therefore hath he
mercy on whom he will have mercy,
and whom he will he hardeneth Thou wilt say then unto me, Why doth he yet find
fault? For who hath resisted his will?.
These verses are explaining that God choose to not
soften Pharaoh’s heart, that is God choose to allow Pharaoh to still hate the Israelites.
God does not cause anyone to hardener there heart toward him but if a person
has chosen to not accept God then God working through that person can cause
other people to learn things or grow closer to him.
Look at what happened for the Jews in Egypt and all
of the plagues and the outpouring of Gods power, and how this showed the Israelites
that Mosses was from God and was going to lead the people out of slavery. Think
about how little faith the people had if when Moses showed up, Pharaoh had
simply said take the people, the Jews would not have followed Moses because
they would not have known that he was sent from God.
We can look at this verse in our lives today like if
you are sharing the Gospel with someone and they are not responding to it,
maybe you being consistent and doing what God has called you to do will open up
the heart and mind of the other person that you were not trying to reach. God
has plans that are different from ours.
We have touched on how he is our potter and forms us
for his purpose, so shouldn’t we listen to him and do what he wants? So these
verse are talking about how when a person goes against what God is wanting to
accomplish, God is still in control, that is God’s will is still done. God was
working through all of the objections of Pharaoh so that we to this day are
still talking about this story. About how God is so powerful that he was able
to overcome all of the objections and roadblocks put in place by man.
God is able to overcome all things because he is in
control, he is the one who is forming his people for a specific purpose. In
this passage he was forming Pharaoh in such a way so that the Jews would know
who he was.
Verse 20 Nay but, O man, who art
thou that repliest against God? Shall the thing formed say to him that formed it, Why hast thou made me thus?
This is a very good question for us, since God
formed us and is molding us into the person he wants us to be, then what business
do we have to question him about what he is doing? God is able to accomplish anything
he desires. Who are we to object to how God made us? God has planned out
everything in our lives for his specific purpose. That job you hate going to
everyday? Maybe God has placed you in that situation because someone you work with
needs to be shown God through you.
I am a firm believer that we reach way more people
through living out Christ in our lives than we ever can reach through preaching
another sermon. You may be the only Bible someone ever sees.
This is profound, you may be the only Bible someone
ever sees.
This means that we are supposed to live out our
lives just as Christ did. We are supposed to be the example for other people
because God has formed us, he is our Potter and he doesn’t make mistakes, you
are for a purpose.
Verse 21 Hath not the potter power
over the clay, of the same lump to make one vessel unto honour, and another
unto dishonour?
Going back to our image of the pot being formed on
the wheel, in the same way God is forming us on a daily basis. He is slowly
applying the pressure and smoothing out areas in our life so that we are of use
to him. Verse 21 is explaining that God chooses what we are used for, so we
should not be discouraged if someone is doing more than us or accomplishing
more than us. All we need to worry about is that we are doing everything for
the glory of God, because we have a purpose and need to fulfill it for God.
Some people may have a calling from God that has
more honors then yours but it doesn’t matter in the grand scheme of things
because if you are doing God’s will, then you are doing what you are supposed
to do.
1 Corinthians 12:20 But now are they many members, yet but one
body.
Being in the body of Christ means that people have
different jobs to do and different functions in the body, thus we must do what
we are called to do for the glory of God. In the preceding verses in 1 Corinthians
12 it talks about how the body of a person cannot function if it is made up of
all eyes. In the same way if every person who is in Christ had the same gifts
and did the same work then the church could not fulfill what it is supposed to
do.
We need people who are gifted and called by God to
teach and preach, but we also need people who are gifted in serving to pick up
chairs and sweep the floor. One may have more honor but both are needed, both
are jobs that people are called to do through God. If a person being formed by
God to sweep the floor of the church building and that is their act of service
then they are being formed by the master potter.
Verse 22 What if God, willing to shew his wrath, and to make his power known, endured with much
longsuffering the vessels of wrath fitted to destruction:.
God has been waiting on us as people to turn to him
and accept what he has done for us. Part of that waiting is giving all people a
chance to turn to him, but God knows that not all people are going to, so some
people are vessels that are to take God’s wrath.
God must pour out vengeance on the people who have
refused to come to him because he cannot be around sin but he gives us every opportunity
to turn to him and do his will. God has formed some people to teach us lessons
about what not to do. He uses these other people to form us in his image.
Verse 23 And that he might make
known the riches of his glory on the vessels of mercy, which he had afore
prepared unto glory.
The people who have accepted God are vessels to show
his glory in all of the earth. So when we accept Christ and God begins working
on forming us, we then become this example for all of the people who do not
know God. We are only accepted through God because of his grace and mercy,
there is nothing we can do that gets us accepted by God. But once we are
accepted and God is moving in our lives then we are to show God through our
lives. Just like when a potter makes a gorgeous piece of pottery we are to be
shown to other people so that they see how great our God is.
Monday, August 26, 2013
Unfair
I (rae) would like to say something. This isn't directed at any one in particular, but society in general, and especially Christian's who are trying to tell us how we should live.
Ok here goes:
It is OK for me to have my own opinions and choose my own lifestyle. I'm an adult, I'm in a wonderfully committed marriage, I have a calling and goals for my life. I do not have to conform to what you think is "normal" to be happy.
My husband and I are making a lifestyle choice that suites us best, is the best for our marriage, and that we believe will make us happier than the alternative. It isn't hurting anyone else, it isn't disrupting anyone else's life, and it's a very personal decision. It shouldn't include anyone but Cliff and I, it affects us most, we will be the one's who have to deal with it for the rest of our lives. It's not up to society, the Church, or our friends and family to make, or even influence, this decision for us.
I am starting to see and understand the people that have chosen the homosexual lifestyle (and other alternative lifestyles) a little more. Now, I do believe that the Bible teaches that living that way is wrong. But it is still their choice. Everyone has the right to chose their own lifestyle, and if that's what they want, then they should have it. It would not be a free country if they didn't. Again, I don't agree with them, or believe that they are in any way inside the will of God, but I'm starting to understand where they're coming from.
If my husband and I choose to do something a little outside the norm, because that is what's best for us, then people should respect that decision, even if they don't understand or agree. Otherwise it's not really the land of the free.
I'm not, nor have I ever been, against the idea of kids. Kids are great. But I don't appreciate people saying that to be happy, fulfilled, or have a good marriage we have to have children, because it's not true.
In case you don't know this is in response to some of the backlash we've received about our decision to not have children.
Ok here goes:
It is OK for me to have my own opinions and choose my own lifestyle. I'm an adult, I'm in a wonderfully committed marriage, I have a calling and goals for my life. I do not have to conform to what you think is "normal" to be happy.
My husband and I are making a lifestyle choice that suites us best, is the best for our marriage, and that we believe will make us happier than the alternative. It isn't hurting anyone else, it isn't disrupting anyone else's life, and it's a very personal decision. It shouldn't include anyone but Cliff and I, it affects us most, we will be the one's who have to deal with it for the rest of our lives. It's not up to society, the Church, or our friends and family to make, or even influence, this decision for us.
I am starting to see and understand the people that have chosen the homosexual lifestyle (and other alternative lifestyles) a little more. Now, I do believe that the Bible teaches that living that way is wrong. But it is still their choice. Everyone has the right to chose their own lifestyle, and if that's what they want, then they should have it. It would not be a free country if they didn't. Again, I don't agree with them, or believe that they are in any way inside the will of God, but I'm starting to understand where they're coming from.
If my husband and I choose to do something a little outside the norm, because that is what's best for us, then people should respect that decision, even if they don't understand or agree. Otherwise it's not really the land of the free.
I'm not, nor have I ever been, against the idea of kids. Kids are great. But I don't appreciate people saying that to be happy, fulfilled, or have a good marriage we have to have children, because it's not true.
In case you don't know this is in response to some of the backlash we've received about our decision to not have children.
Friday, August 23, 2013
Childfree
This is a revised update of an earlier post. I was told that what I said was a little harsh, and in rereading it I found that to be true. I want to state our opinion, but not hurt other people. So here is a slightly softer version of what I was trying to say.
I've discovered something in the last few months. Once you get married, everyone starts talking about having kids. It's a topic that comes up with disturbing regularity, and it's surprisingly non-marital status specific, as far as the asker is concerned. What I mean is we get these questions from both married couples with kids, married couples without kids, and singles, almost equally. Questions like:
"How many kids do you both want?"
"Aren't you excited to start a family?"
"Aw you're such a cute couple, you'll have adorable kids!"
It doesn't seam to matter that we've said we don't want kids, or that we are living in a foreign country, the subject seams to be everywhere. So in response to all of this, and to let anyone else know, here is our stance on the matter of children.
We don't want kids. Not now, and probably not ever. Now, having said that I would like to make it clear that we are not kid haters or anything of the sort. We volunteer in several of our church's children programs, and we met at a camp for children. We mentor two kids, and have spent a whole weekend alone with them and survived. We like being around kids... in small doses. But that doesn't mean that we are ready to have kids, or even that we want kids. And there is nothing wrong with that. There is no rule that says just because we're married of over 21 we should have or want children.
The matter of children was something we discussed in depth before we even considered getting engaged. It's a big deal and we wanted to be sure of our view before we committed the rest of our lives to each other.
We believe that raising children is the single most important and demanding job on earth. It takes a person's whole life, energy, resources, love and commitment. A parent is given the greatest task of all; to care for a human soul. It is the most worthwhile thing a person can do.
We also believe that being a parent is a calling the same as with a missionary, pastor, or teacher. It is something that should only be done if God calls you for it. I would suggest that when God tells Noah and his family to "go forth and multiply" it isn't so much a command as a blessing. Because we believe that having children is a calling, it stands to reason that not everyone is called.
God has a special love for little children. Just look at how Jesus cared for them, or how the are called a gift from God. They are special to Him. And it can be assumed that God wants them to be raised well, and cared for properly, not mistreated or forgotten.
Could it assume that it is better to not create a child, than to conceive a human soul and let it lead a miserable life? I think so. I will argue that to care for a child is both the greatest blessing, and the greatest responsibility that God could give a person.
And it's a calling that we don't feel. We believe it is better to remain childfree than to have a child for the wrong reasons and hurt that child. The wrong reasons are anything other than God's calling and a deep love of children and a commitment to spending the rest of your life providing, caring, guiding and loving that child.
We have many reasons for not wanting kids, the greatest being the one above. At this point in our life we are not called to parenthood. Another reason is that we simply do not want them. Why should we have a child if we already know we don't like being around them? There are plenty of miserable kids in the world already, who have parents that had them for the wrong reasons or don't care enough about them, so why add to it?
Also, I'm sure everyone reading this knows someone who you would say is a bad parent. For whatever reason, that person should not have had kids. I think it can be said that not everyone (even married couples) should be having kids. Just because someone is married or breathing does not not mean they are capable of taking care of children. Just like not everyone that is over 16 should drive. It's a priviladge that is earned, and a great responsibility. You wouldn't give a car and the keys to a drunk person? So why is it OK to force an even greater responsibility on all married couples just because they are married?
Another reason is expense. While at first this may sound petty, it's a very good reason to at least postpone having kids. Too many people are having a lot of kids and for any number of reasons not being in a position to financially provide for them. Then usually one if two things happen: the kids are not given the basic necessities they need or the parents have to take handouts and are dependent on the government to care for their families. Neither is healthy for anyone involved.
Another reason is overpopulation. No matter if you believe global warming or not, it can not be denied that there are too many people on earth. I read somewhere that in the next few hundred years ( if the population keeps increasing how it is now) we will run out of natural resources like fresh water, forests, and land to grow food. I don't believe this is what God meant when He said to multiply, nor it it being good caretakers of the earth (which, if you remember was the very first thing Man was told to do... even before multiplying) We're not being responsible with our planet, and a lot of its problems are from too many people.
But having said all of this, there is still one main reason we don't want children.
The most important thing in our life, after God, is our marriage. Children too often get in the way of that. Some statistics show that people that have children are more unhappy, and have more marital problems than people that never had children. Our priorities are supposed to be God, our marriage, family, church/ministry, community, world. In that order. Too often in our kid-centric world the children take the first or second place.
That's not OK for me and Cliff. We want the absolute best marriage we can have, which takes a lot of work! We spend a lot of time working on, smoothing out, and growing our relationship every single day. We make a lot of decisions based on how it will affect our marriage, because it is the most important thing in our lives, after God.
I know people say that having a kid together cements your relationship, and makes it so much better. And that may be true for that person, but in my experience the most unhappy people I've met have had kids and a crappy marriage. (Not that these always go hand-in-hand) I've met several couples who have chosen not to have children, for various reasons, and have devoted their time and energy first to their marriage and second to ministry opportunities. These couples have the best marriages I've ever seen, and seem much happier with their life together than a lot people I know or have seen that have kids.
So at least for now, until if God changes our mind, we're not planning on having children. That's our choice to make. No one else can make it for us.
I've discovered something in the last few months. Once you get married, everyone starts talking about having kids. It's a topic that comes up with disturbing regularity, and it's surprisingly non-marital status specific, as far as the asker is concerned. What I mean is we get these questions from both married couples with kids, married couples without kids, and singles, almost equally. Questions like:
"How many kids do you both want?"
"Aren't you excited to start a family?"
"Aw you're such a cute couple, you'll have adorable kids!"
It doesn't seam to matter that we've said we don't want kids, or that we are living in a foreign country, the subject seams to be everywhere. So in response to all of this, and to let anyone else know, here is our stance on the matter of children.
We don't want kids. Not now, and probably not ever. Now, having said that I would like to make it clear that we are not kid haters or anything of the sort. We volunteer in several of our church's children programs, and we met at a camp for children. We mentor two kids, and have spent a whole weekend alone with them and survived. We like being around kids... in small doses. But that doesn't mean that we are ready to have kids, or even that we want kids. And there is nothing wrong with that. There is no rule that says just because we're married of over 21 we should have or want children.
The matter of children was something we discussed in depth before we even considered getting engaged. It's a big deal and we wanted to be sure of our view before we committed the rest of our lives to each other.
We believe that raising children is the single most important and demanding job on earth. It takes a person's whole life, energy, resources, love and commitment. A parent is given the greatest task of all; to care for a human soul. It is the most worthwhile thing a person can do.
We also believe that being a parent is a calling the same as with a missionary, pastor, or teacher. It is something that should only be done if God calls you for it. I would suggest that when God tells Noah and his family to "go forth and multiply" it isn't so much a command as a blessing. Because we believe that having children is a calling, it stands to reason that not everyone is called.
God has a special love for little children. Just look at how Jesus cared for them, or how the are called a gift from God. They are special to Him. And it can be assumed that God wants them to be raised well, and cared for properly, not mistreated or forgotten.
Could it assume that it is better to not create a child, than to conceive a human soul and let it lead a miserable life? I think so. I will argue that to care for a child is both the greatest blessing, and the greatest responsibility that God could give a person.
And it's a calling that we don't feel. We believe it is better to remain childfree than to have a child for the wrong reasons and hurt that child. The wrong reasons are anything other than God's calling and a deep love of children and a commitment to spending the rest of your life providing, caring, guiding and loving that child.
We have many reasons for not wanting kids, the greatest being the one above. At this point in our life we are not called to parenthood. Another reason is that we simply do not want them. Why should we have a child if we already know we don't like being around them? There are plenty of miserable kids in the world already, who have parents that had them for the wrong reasons or don't care enough about them, so why add to it?
Also, I'm sure everyone reading this knows someone who you would say is a bad parent. For whatever reason, that person should not have had kids. I think it can be said that not everyone (even married couples) should be having kids. Just because someone is married or breathing does not not mean they are capable of taking care of children. Just like not everyone that is over 16 should drive. It's a priviladge that is earned, and a great responsibility. You wouldn't give a car and the keys to a drunk person? So why is it OK to force an even greater responsibility on all married couples just because they are married?
Another reason is expense. While at first this may sound petty, it's a very good reason to at least postpone having kids. Too many people are having a lot of kids and for any number of reasons not being in a position to financially provide for them. Then usually one if two things happen: the kids are not given the basic necessities they need or the parents have to take handouts and are dependent on the government to care for their families. Neither is healthy for anyone involved.
Another reason is overpopulation. No matter if you believe global warming or not, it can not be denied that there are too many people on earth. I read somewhere that in the next few hundred years ( if the population keeps increasing how it is now) we will run out of natural resources like fresh water, forests, and land to grow food. I don't believe this is what God meant when He said to multiply, nor it it being good caretakers of the earth (which, if you remember was the very first thing Man was told to do... even before multiplying) We're not being responsible with our planet, and a lot of its problems are from too many people.
But having said all of this, there is still one main reason we don't want children.
The most important thing in our life, after God, is our marriage. Children too often get in the way of that. Some statistics show that people that have children are more unhappy, and have more marital problems than people that never had children. Our priorities are supposed to be God, our marriage, family, church/ministry, community, world. In that order. Too often in our kid-centric world the children take the first or second place.
That's not OK for me and Cliff. We want the absolute best marriage we can have, which takes a lot of work! We spend a lot of time working on, smoothing out, and growing our relationship every single day. We make a lot of decisions based on how it will affect our marriage, because it is the most important thing in our lives, after God.
I know people say that having a kid together cements your relationship, and makes it so much better. And that may be true for that person, but in my experience the most unhappy people I've met have had kids and a crappy marriage. (Not that these always go hand-in-hand) I've met several couples who have chosen not to have children, for various reasons, and have devoted their time and energy first to their marriage and second to ministry opportunities. These couples have the best marriages I've ever seen, and seem much happier with their life together than a lot people I know or have seen that have kids.
So at least for now, until if God changes our mind, we're not planning on having children. That's our choice to make. No one else can make it for us.
Wednesday, August 21, 2013
Jehovah Tsidkenu NoG8
Tonight we are looking at an
interesting name for God, and thus an interesting characteristic. The name we
are looking at is Jehovah Tsidkenu which means the Lord is our Righteousness.
This is a name that is only used twice in our Bible; both times occurring in
the book of Jeremiah.
The Hebrew root words that
Tsidkenu is derived from means stiff, strait, or righteous. I feel these are
good words to describe God. Our God is stiff meaning he is unbending, he does
not compromise himself or what he expects from us. This name is very important
for us, because in order for us to come into God’s presence then we must be
righteous, because God can’t be around sin.
But our Bible tells us in
Romans 3:10 As it is written, There is none righteous,
no, not one:.
Does this mean that we cannot
approach God? Yes we cannot approach God alone, but through Jesus we can. Let
us begin by looking at the passages in Jeremiah for some historical context. We
will start in chapter 23 verse 1.
Jeremiah 23:1
Woe be unto the pastors that destroy and scatter the sheep of my
pasture! saith the LORD. Therefore thus
saith the LORD God of Israel against the pastors that feed my people; Ye have
scattered my flock, and driven them away, and have not visited them: behold, I
will visit upon you the evil of your doings, saith the LORD. And I will gather the remnant of my flock
out of all countries whither I have driven them, and will bring them again to
their folds; and they shall be fruitful and increase. And I will set up shepherds over them which
shall feed them: and they shall fear no more, nor be dismayed, neither shall
they be lacking, saith the LORD.
Behold, the days come, saith the LORD, that I will raise unto David a
righteous Branch, and a King shall reign and prosper, and shall execute
judgment and justice in the earth. In
his days Judah shall be saved, and Israel shall dwell safely: and this is his name whereby he shall be
called, THE LORD OUR RIGHTEOUSNESS.
As I am sure we know the book of Jeremiah is a
prophetic work, so through Jeremiah God is revealing to Israel things that were
going to happen in the future. So what is being revealed here? The first two
verses are a warning from God concerning the scribes, Pharisees, and other
false teachers.
If we read through the Gospels we realize that Jesus
was very much against religion. What I mean by this is that the Jews had become
so focused on doing everything correctly and not missing a single letter of the
law that they were missing the spirit of the law.
The reason God gave us the law was so that we would
see that we were sinners and can only approach God through his grace, it
doesn’t matter how good we are for our Bible tells us that all have sinned and
fall short of the glory of God.
Then and now, if people tried to come to God through
themselves God rejects them. The law was and is a type of a shadow pointing us
to our need for God’s grace. These first two verses are a stern warning, then
and now, for anyone who is in a leadership position. We must make sure that if
we are leading then we are also being led by God. I know for me every time I
write a lesson I am very careful to look at the passages I am using, the
context of the passages, and any passages that are cross referenced in my Bible
because we must not pervert the word of God.
Verses 3 and 4 are a promise from God that he will
provide the shepherd for his people in the right way, but it is up to us to
find them. In the last two verse Jeremiah is painting a picture of Jesus who
was the promised messiah that was going to come. Jesus is our righteous. We are
unable to come to God apart from Jesus, it does not matter how much you study
your bible, how much you pray, how much you give, or what you do in the name of
God, if you do not have a relationship with Jesus as your Lord and savior then
you are not righteous and cannot approach the throne of God because Jesus is
our Lord and our righteousness.
Let us take a look at the other
time this name for God is used in Bible; it is also in Jeremiah.
Jeremiah 33:15
In those days, and at that time, will I cause the Branch of
righteousness to grow up unto David; and he shall execute judgment and
righteousness in the land. In those days
shall Judah be saved, and Jerusalem shall dwell safely: and this is the name wherewith she shall be
called, The LORD our righteousness.
This once again is a prophesy that points us toward
Jesus. I think this is interesting because God is telling the Jewish people in
these prophesies that it does not matter how well you keep the law or how many sacrifices
you make, you simply will never be good enough to come to me. In verse 15, Jeremiah is saying that the one
who will bring righteousness comes from David’s line; this a direct reference
to Jesus.
Then in verse 16 is the promise that through this
one person Judah and Jerusalem will be saved. We can apply that promise to
ourselves as well because when we accept Jesus then it is as if we are righteous.
Since Jesus takes away our sin by his sacrifice on
the cross, we are saved because God views us as though we have no sin. In the
flesh we are not righteous but through our Jehovah Tsidkenu we are reckoned as
righteous.
Since God is our righteousness, then what does this
mean for us? What is our part of the job? Let us take a look at what Jesus has
to saying about righteousness.
Matthew 5:6 Blessed are they which do hunger and thirst
after righteousness: for they shall be filled.
When I used to read this verse in conjunction with
Romans 3:10, I used to be confused because on one hand none of us are righteous,
but on the other we are blessed if we hunger after righteousness. These verses actually
go together perfectly. We must realize that we are called to be imitators of
Jesus and thus we need to be striving to be perfect like he is perfect and if
we are reaching toward that goal then we are blessed. But we also have to realize
that we cannot approach the throne of God ourselves because we are not perfect,
we are not righteous apart from Jesus. Jesus in Matthew 5:6 is telling us that
by hungering after righteousness then we will be filled, but filled with what?
I feel that
when we are striving after God then we are filled with the Holy Spirit, that is
we are filled with God himself. This is pretty awesome because all of the
things that we are not, God is; God is perfect, God is righteous, God knows
all. By us seeking to be Christ like and by hungering after righteousness we
are able to tap into Gods power.
Another large component of Jehovah Tsidkenu is that
we are able to resist Satan by calling on this portion of Gods character. If we
look back into Genesis and throughout the rest of our Bible we see that Satan
is a tempter. But Satan does not tempt with just anything. He uses half-truths
because the best temptation or con has an element of truth. I know in my life
that when Satan is attacking me, he use things out of my past.
I have these thoughts such as “it doesn’t matter
what you do because you remember ten years ago when you stole that candy bar,
God doesn’t love you.” The half-truth in that statement is, yes when I was a
little kid I did steal the candy, but the truth is that God still loves me and
has forgiven me for that.
Satan tries to point out all of the ways we mess up
because we are all human and we all mess up but what we have to realize is that
once we accept Jesus as our savior he forgives us of all sins. He is our righteousness
because through Jesus God views us as if we have no sin. Let us take a look at
another scripture talking about Jesus functioning to show us righteousness.
1John 2:2 And he is the propitiation for our sins: and
not for ours only, but also for the
sins of the whole world.
Looking at this verse the key word here is
propitiation. Now what does this mean? It means atonement, it means that Jesus
has appeased the wrath of God. Christ dyeing for our sins means that God sees
us as righteous.
The law given in the old testament was a type or
shadow to show that people needed & need a savior, and Jesus fulfilled the
law for us. Let us look at Romans:
Romans 3:19 Now we know that
what things soever the law saith, it saith to them who are under the law: that
every mouth may be stopped, and all the world may become guilty before God. Therefore by the deeds of the law there shall
no flesh be justified in his sight: for by the law is the knowledge of sin.
But now the righteousness of God without the law is manifested, being
witnessed by the law and the prophets;
Even the righteousness of God which
is by faith of Jesus Christ unto all and upon all them that believe: for
there is no difference: For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of
God; Being justified freely by his grace through the redemption that is in
Christ Jesus: Whom God hath set forth to be a propitiation through faith in
his blood, to declare his righteousness for the remission of sins that are
past, through the forbearance of God;
Let us look at each of these verses on an individual
basis. Verse 19 is speaking to us about how if we look at our lives through the
lens of the law we are all guilty of breaking the law and deserve to go to
hell. And that we must realize that we are guilty and there is nothing that we
can do that will make us right with God. Verse 20 is explaining to us that if
we did not have the law then we would not know what sin is, for being in the
flesh we are opposed to God and his perfection. The Law was given so that we
would have a standard to reach toward. It also tells us that no flesh, that is
nobody can be justified by the law because we all fail to keep it.
In verse 21, Jesus is the manifestation of Gods righteousness
on earth and Jesus did not come simply to say that we are all going to hell
even though this is what we deserve. He came so that he could bring us back to
the father. Jesus came so that we can be reckoned as righteous before God.
Jesus is our Jehovah Tsidkenu he is our rightounos.
But all of the law and prophesies given throughout our Bible are designed to
point us toward Jesus. They are designed to show us that we have a need for a
savoir, that we cannot do it ourselves.
Verse 22 is assuring us of the fact that it doesn’t
matter what our background is God can save us and we can be viewed as righteous
before him. If we accept Jesus it doesn’t matter what has happened in our past,
it doesn’t matter what country we are from, it doesn’t matter what our skin
color is, God sees us all the same.
This verse was originally given to try and show the
Jews that people didn’t have to be Jewish to be saved through Jesus because
that was a big point of contention during the time period when this was
written. We just need to know that when we accept Jesus he becomes our
righteousness no matter what our background is. We already talked a little
about verse 23 and it pretty self-explanatory but we are all sinners and are
separated from God by that sin so we need Jesus to approach the throne of God.
Verse 24 tells us that the only way for us to be redeemed
from the life of sin that we lived is through Jesus and it is not something
that we have done. It a very simple process; all we must do is believe in our
hearts and confess with our mouths and we will be saved.
Now this is the first step and when a person is
saved then they have a change of heart and turn away from the negative things
that they were doing. But all we need to do to be saved is to repent or turn
away and confess Jesus as Lord, then we receive the righteousness of Jesus. We
are saved through grace; that is a very simple word but it has a profound
effect, that is the word that separated us from every other religion.
We are saved and go to an eternity in heaven because
of the free gift God gave us, when he forgave our sins and choices to view us
as righteous. In verse 25 it is talking about the blood of Jesus being our
propitiation, now what does that word mean looking at the original wording it
is the same word that is translated for the mercy seat on the Ark of the Convent.
See through Jesus we are forgiven from our sins. Before
Jesus the Jews once a year would place blood on the mercy seat so that their
sins would be forgiven for the next year. See how the mercy seat was a type of
Jesus. Now Jesus is so much better at showing us righteous before God because
we don’t have to kill Jesus every year to be viewed as righteous. He die once
for all. That is, he died one time to forgive all sins past, present, and
future. Jesus died so that we are reckoned as righteous before God. Jesus is
our Jehovah Tsidkenu.
Wednesday, August 14, 2013
Jehovah Sabaoth NoG7
We
learned last week how the Lord goes to battle for us and protects us as our
shield. This week we are going to look at the army the Lord brings with him. We
are going to look at God as Jehovah Sabaoth which means the Lord of Hosts, or
Lord God Almighty. Looking up this name for God it appears over 250 times in
our Bible so it must be an important name for God. So what is God revealing
about himself in this name? This name for the Lord, means the Lord of armies.
This means that God has an entire army that we can’t see. It also means that
God is powerful and in control; God is the general of a great army.
Again how
we talked about last week, God is a God of war. This name reveals how powerful
God is, Our Jehovah Sabaoth is in control of the entire angel army. This is a name
for God that is used by people in our Bible who are at the end of their rope.
This name for God first appeared in our Bible during the time of the judges in Israel,
this was a dark time for the people. So the few people that still followed God
were calling on a name of God that showed that he was all powerful.
Let us
take a look at the first time this name is used in our Bible
1
Samuel 1:1 Now there was a certain man
of Ramathaimzophim, of mount Ephraim, and his name was Elkanah, the son of Jeroham, the son of Elihu, the son of
Tohu, the son of Zuph, an Ephrathite: And he had two wives; the name of the one
was Hannah, and the name of the
other Peninnah: and Peninnah had children, but Hannah had no children. And this
man went up out of his city yearly to worship and to sacrifice unto the LORD of
hosts in Shiloh. And the two sons of Eli, Hophni and Phinehas, the priests of
the LORD, were there. And when
the time was that Elkanah offered, he gave to Peninnah his wife, and to all her
sons and her daughters, portions: But unto Hannah he gave a worthy portion; for
he loved Hannah: but the LORD had shut up her womb.
If we
continue reading the story we find out how Hannah had faith enough in God that
she kept praying to God, and God gave her a son, Samuel. And Samuel became a
prophet. Let us turn our attention back to the verse we just read, why did
Elkanah pray to this name of God? As we
have been learning, each name of God shows a characteristic of God and thus is
the portion of God we call on in the situation at hand.
Why did
he not call on Jehovah Rapha -quick test who remembers what that name for God
means? Instead he was tapping into the fact that God is so powerful that he is able
to command an army so great that it will conquer the world. Many men tried to
conquer the world but none have been successful except our God and his hosts,
that is his army, will. So Elkanah was tapping into the limitless power of God.
For this family the power of God was able to answer their prayer and provide
them with a son. This section of scripture is also a testament to the faith
that both Elkanash and Hannah had, because they had been waiting years for God
to provide them a son; but did they get discouraged and turn away from God? No,
they just kept praying and believing that God would provide because he is so
powerful.
Looking
into the next part of the story of Samuel
1
Samuel_1:11 And she vowed a vow, and said, O LORD of
hosts, if thou wilt indeed look on the affliction of thine handmaid, and
remember me, and not forget thine handmaid, but wilt give unto thine handmaid a
man child, then I will give him unto the LORD all the days of his life, and
there shall no razor come upon his head.
This is
Hannah praying to God and she once again calls on the Lord of Hosts. Why does she do this? She is once again
tapping into the full power of God. Let us think about this for a minute, an
angel is a creature so powerful that one of them thought he could overthrow
God. Anytime we hear of angels coming to someone in the Bible the people are
terrified. When I think of angels I normally get this vision of these little
cute chubby babies flying around in this pink sky but this is not accurate. It
appears to me from reading the accounts of people meeting angels that angles
were terrifying and not something you would want to mess with.
So what
does this tell us about God? It tells us
he is so powerful that he can command the angles to do his will. It is not as
if the angles are forced to serve God or do his will. Let us look at Satan who
was an angel in the beginning, his name at that time was Lucifer which means
light bringer. This means that he worked to bring the praises to God but he
made a choice that he wanted to be God and thus tried to overthrow God. This
just shows us the power angels have but our God is so much stronger and more
power because he is the Lord of Hosts he is our Jehovah Sabaoth, he is the one
who commands the angles.
Let us take a look at a famous use for this name in
our Bibles
1Sa 17:45 Then
said David to the Philistine, Thou comest to me with a sword, and with a spear,
and with a shield: but I come to thee in the name of the LORD of hosts, the God
of the armies of Israel, whom thou hast defied.
We all
know this story it is the story of David and Goliath. David was going into
battle with a giant, a man who’s whole occupation was war, while David was a simple
shepherd. David had complete faith that God was in this battle, David knew that
God was going to deliver his people, the Israelites. What David is saying here
is that even though your army and your solider look bigger and stronger, I have
God and his hosts of angles here with me and nothing can overcome my God. God
went with David out to deliver the people from the hand of the Philistines
because David was the only one in the camp to have faith in God.
If we
look at it from a physical standpoint, Saul should have been the one to go out
face the giant, not only was he king but he was also the largest of the Israelites.
But Saul didn’t have the faith needed to face his enemy, so God rose up David
to take care of the people and David, being a man after Gods own heart, took
over being king of Israel and was their greatest leader. In this story of David
and Goliath God came down and fought for David to show all of the people his
power.
But did God
respond to David’s use of his name? It would appear not because God did not
call down an army of angels to fight against the Philistines but instead he
went with David and fought for David. So why then does our Bible tell us that
David called on Jehovah Sabaoth, David used this name for God because he was
showing that he had faith that God would fight the battle for him. David is
saying by using the Lord of Hosts that if God had chosen to send down an army
to wipe out the Philistines than it would have been done. God was trying to
show through David that if you have faith in God then you can accomplish
anything for our God fights for us.
Next let’s look at this name of God when Elijah is
speaking with God.
1 Kings 19:10 And he said, I
have been very jealous for the LORD God of hosts: for the children of Israel
have forsaken thy covenant, thrown down thine altars, and slain thy prophets
with the sword; and I, even I
only, am left; and they seek my life, to take it away.
If we
read the verses around this one then we learn that Elijah was in hiding from
the people because they were seeking to kill him. He was hiding in a cave and
the Lord sent ravens to care for him. Elijah was calling on the Lord as Jehovah
Sabaoth to protect him from his enemies. Elijah was certain that the Lord would
care for him and provide what he needed. This is an interesting time in Elijah’s
life to use this name for God, because it is almost like he was needing
assurance that God was there and had power but if you look at the verses before
it you see that God had just called down fire onto an altar of wood that was
drenched in water in front of Elijah. So Elijah had to have known how powerful God
is.
But
Queen Jezebel had told Elijah that she was going to kill him. So even though
Elijah knew that God is powerful and able to do all thing he still had fears
and doubts when faced w a bad situation. So it is not wrong for us to wonder
what is going to happen, but what we need to make sure is that we do not doubt
God, we must have faith that God in all of
his power is going to take care of us. What we cannot do is allow that
doubt to change how we view God. We need to view the Lord of Hosts for who he
is, the all-powerful creator and sustainer.
Isa 31:4 For thus
hath the LORD spoken unto me, Like as the lion and the young lion roaring on
his prey, when a multitude of shepherds is called forth against him, he will not be afraid of their voice,
nor abase himself for the noise of them: so shall the LORD of hosts come down
to fight for mount Zion, and for the hill thereof.
Isa
31:5 As birds flying, so will the LORD
of hosts defend Jerusalem; defending also he will deliver it; and passing over he will preserve
it.
Breaking
this section of scripture apart, when Isaiah is talking about the lion he is
referring to God, and when he talks about the shepherds he is referring to
things of this world and Satan. Let us think of the imagery here: which is
stronger and scarier, a lion or a group of shepherds? The lion is much more
powerful, and in the same way our God and Lord of Hosts is stronger than anything
we will face in this life. He will be there to protect us from the attacks that
have come against us.
Looking
into verse 5 it says the Jehovah Sabaoth will defend Jerusalem. Now we can take
that old testament promise and apply it to us. We are Gods people just like the
Jewish people, so if God was willing to go to war to defend a city then he is
willing to come down and defend us. He is able to send down warriors from
heaven to protect us. He also provides us the tools we need to defend ourselves.
We have discussed it before, about how we have a suit of armor that God
provides, and last week we looked at how God is our shield. So even though we
may not be able to see him or the angles standing next to us we know that he is
there to protect us from the attacks of Satan.
We have
been focusing on how powerful God is through this name and how he uses the army
of angels that he has to fight for us but we need to do something as well. We
need to come to God with a humble heart and repent of the sin and wrong in our
life. If we do not repent and turn away from our sins then God can’t hear our
prayers because we are still in sin and God cannot be around sin. This is one
of the most powerful things God does; that is he forgives us when we mess up. I
know I struggle with this, I struggle to confess my shortcomings to people and
to God but what me and you need to do is realize that God is perfect and he
will forgive us where we fail no matter how often. Now this is not a free pass
to sin, simply because sin causes death, but it is a great comfort to know that
no matter how many times we mess up, God in his almighty power can and will
forgive us if we confess and repent. God is the Lord Almighty he is able to
forgive us and save us.
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